im not exactly sure when this change came in, but when i was a kid i remember it either being
"____ has been Disfellowshipped or Dissasociated"
if someone has been announced to the congregation as no longer a JW then they are the same as any other non-JW. to be treated as a "man of the nations", or a "tax collector". " no longer called a Brother".
it may be that you know what has happened and would decide that the person is a nasty peice of work and not have anything to do with them...... but as time goes on you may mellow as you see them no longer being a nasty peice of work and now have settled into a nice person with a new family. you remeber jesus