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"... there would be literally decades of silence to overcome"
Results vary, but it could be that if any of your relatives left, you would find that there were decades worth of events to discuss. Although you may have much reason to be bitter, it sounds like your life has turned out very well and you don't want to poison that with anger. And you never know but that kindness and forgiveness on your part might save a life from JW bondage.