JW women are saying "I picked a loser, I'm not going to stand for this for the next 20, 30 or 40 years. Better to get out now, even if I am DF'd for a few years, then I can get a new man."
The smarter ones will figure out that if living with this "ideal" mate is such torture now, imagine the prospect of spending AN ETERNITY with this dullard, LOL!
Suddenly, Hades/Gehenna is not looking like such a bad thing (non-existence is better than an eternity spent feeling numb, or never knowing what's like to experience being truly loved).