My Wife the 'Rebel'

by breakfast of champions 42 Replies latest members private

  • Yan Bibiyan
    Yan Bibiyan

    Nice. Let them dig their own grave.

    I am happy for you!

  • jemba
    jemba

    I love this story. You both showed true love and consideration to this young woman. It is ridiculous that you were the only people in the cong to offer assistance. I bet you got some funny looks from other dubs wondering why you were holding the 'disfellowshipped' baby. Lets hope this starts your wifes questioning of the cult.

  • whathappened
    whathappened

    BOC, this story put a big warm smile on my face. Thanks for sharing it with us.

  • QueenWitch
    QueenWitch

    As a previously single mom, bravo to you and your wife. As if going to meeting was hard enough not being disfellowshipped, the sister had to deal with her 2 very young children. Again, bravo.

  • 3rdgen
    3rdgen

    Congrats to you both. You and your wife sound like great people.

    Remember years ago when the Watchtower stated that if a "true Christian" saw a Dfed person on the roadside with a flat tire it would be fitting to stop and offer assistance? Replace flat tire with crying baby, then add the fact that the mother is doing the "works that befit repentance" according to their own criteria.

    Is something in writing that makes this "OLD light"?????? Is there "NU light" that replaces the flat tire principle?

  • skeeter1
    skeeter1

    Why didn't the elder go to you first? I mean, you are the "head of the household?" If I was you, I'd have a stern talk with this elder, and tell him (in front of your wife) that ANY spiritual matters regarding your wife's behavior MUST go through YOU.

    Skeeter

    p.s. Your wife will LOVE you for that one. You may even get LUCKY.

  • jamiebowers
    jamiebowers

    Skeeter, that's just what I was thinking.

    BOC, contrary to the Watch Tower, not all women are controlled by emotion. It seems to me, however, that your wife is. She's in good company, because I'm the same way. Don't bother her with the Watch Tower's false doctrine. I've been out for 24 years and just recently took an interest in it. Instead, rely on the injustices...the abused children, the domestic violence, the treatment of df'd people, the jws who were damaged by missing out on vaccinations, transplants, blood fractions before they became Watch Tower approved. These things will get to her.

  • Quendi
    Quendi

    I loved this sequel, BOC, better than many others I've read in a long time. And the reason "Brother COBE" didn't approach you about your wife's "problem" is plain to me. Like so many in authority among Jehovah's Witnesses, HE IS A COWARD.

    Quendi

  • dreamgolfer
    dreamgolfer

    i meant to post here - ROCK ON BOC!

    Great story and I look forward to the Happy Endings

  • jgnat
    jgnat

    I go off on a rant about some stupid WT policy here and there. It can stay genuine without setting off the cultist mindset in circumstances like this; by keeping it real.

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