Theo Sed -
First, those who leave the organization and who are on this site, are many different reasons and the after effects are different as well. Some believe in the bible and just not the governing body, some become athiest, agnostic, and the reasons for leaving can range from being dfed to leaving because of their bible conscience in seeing bad things and lies.
I started reading the bible one day, and noticed a lot of what I had been taught and how things are done were in direct contradiction with the bible. It was not anything 'apostate' just reading the bible. Then I thought to myself, okay, well either way, if this is God's people and his arrangement, I should still follow it, so I looked up everything on how we know this is it. The main argument was JW's were chosen in 1914 or 1918. I looked up everything, and I looked up what was going on during those times. Everything was wrong, there was no way God would have chose them and the real facts showed that the history I had been told was white washed.
Okay, so there is a bad history, what about TODAY?? The evidence is the new light. What new light? THe only new light in my lifetime had been when I was a kid anybody born or alive in 1914 would see the end. I didn't think I'd make it out of school. Then when I was a teen (after time mostly ran out), it was changed to a generation is 'obviously' meaning a period of time, not having to do with humans or human lifespans. And that it was foolish that in the past people tried to put a human lifespan or timeframe on it. (blame everybody for believing the governing body and make it appear it was the other sheeps fault). Then last year or so new light again, it's 'obvious' Jesus meant there would be an overlapping generation and we should thank the faithful slave for that new light.
Here is the history of the light getting brighter for the generation thing
It was originally said 1874. Then a generation was said to be 40 years, so 1874 plus 40 meant "before" 1914. Then as 1914 got close it was 1914. Then it was said those who were alive to understand the events of 1914, meaning they would have to be atleast 15 years old. Then it was a mistake on the 1874(6,000 years of man's existance being off by 100 years, so it was 1975) Then it was those born in 1914. Then it was just a period of time and shame on everybody who dared to think generation could be understood and blamed it on the other sheep for putting faith in the faithful slave. Then they go back on that and put human lifespans back into it and claim it's overlapping generations.
Do you not see everytime that time had run out, it was 'new light' to add time? The new light never added time long before it was due, it was always when time ran out or about to run out. It's not 'getting brighter' they are in the darkness on that.
The simple answer, is the generation that Jesus was specifically speaking about the coming destruction of Jerusalem, when they would have to flee when it was surrounded by armies. THAT GENERATION saw all of that happen and those who didn't flee, were killed or starved to death when stuck in Jerusalem. That particular part did not have a future meaning.
Anyway....aside from that, seeing how everyone is to treat what the governing body says as coming from God himself and seeing how it's human interpretations and understanding. He is VERY ANGRY about that. The bible foretold that and they got it coming. Elders may be in a lot of heat too. The disfellowshipping arrangement, telling somebody that while they are disfellowshipped they are in bad terms with God, that if the end came they would die if not reinstated. They can't see somebody's heart, they can't judge if they are sorry or not. The most they can do is make their own human choice but putting Jehovah's name to it and saying that's HIS choice is very bad.
Also they are blocking the holy spirit from working. If you read the bible, and you are understanding it or learning something, if it disagrees with what is in the society's literature, or if he is moving you to do something, they tell you to stop, or ignore it.
Does any of that make sense?