Hello Princess Ashe- Welcome!!! Please start a post to tell a little bit about yourself. Some part of your story and how you came to find JWN .
Was there a known sex offender in your cong that was disfellowshipped? If so, your elder warned you that you can get in trouble for gossiping but they will go out of their way and protect the pedophiles.
The elder that compared oral sex to a toliet probably likes having his toliet licked.
Well, Princess Ashe, the song YMCA is an old song sung by the Village People who were all gay. And the song is how much fun it is to stay at the Y.M.C.A. which stands for " Young Men's Christian Association"- so the elder didn't want you or anyone else to be influenced by Satan. Oh, that's not really true. It's just that the WTS hates gay people and hates any organization that claims to be Christian- except themselves- Oh and also they protect pedophiles.
I agree with your assessment: when elders talk=crap. (Although, there are several elders on this web site and they don't talk crap.)