This is a bit of a personal topic for me... I'm 30 - I've had a combination of chronich - neuropathic and chronic / actue pain for most of my life due to severe - burns as a kid - but the last 10 or so years has been the worse. I went from being a fairly active person to someone who isn't able to walk more than a couple hundred metres at a time, let alone playing sport of any kind. Anyway - I've always listened to a lot of music and can believe that there is some theraputic benefits. Some music - especially if played too loudly can seriously make me a lot more aware of my pain at times, and other music may sometimes help to soothe a bit, I spose.
However - I have to say that it gets on my nerves a little bit when people get on their high horse about pain medication. Yes, obviously a life without medication is better - but hey - a life without pain is better yet - and that is not with in reach for many people. Over the years - I have been VERY open minded in trying to find an alternative to god-awful pain meds - such as: clinical psychology and hypnotysm, acupuncture, massage (I still get regular massage - it hel[ps, but isn't a cure), alcohol (doesn't help), weed (does help, but for me no better than being on any other med), irridology, physio, and however many other alternative therapies that I can't even remember the name of.
At the end of it all - I'm still in pain, and still have to take medication if I want to hold down a job. I could stop taking it - however I wouldn't be able to work and the only way to handle the pain would be to stay in - probably in bed most of the day. This would surely kill me quicker.
So here I am, now 30, been seeing my current pain clinic for 2 years now. The bottom line is - I probably want to have kids one day within the next few years, but this isi totally out of the question. I can't be pregnant on the meds for a start - and even if they said it was safe I wouldn't - and I am going to struggle with being 15kg heavier pregnant, let alone lack of sleep and getting up for night feeds when the baby comes. I now have to consider having my foot amputated, learning about prosthetics etc. and learning to re-walk, which is scary - but exciting if it means my pain is dramatically reduced... Then again - there's the risk of phantom pain, so I could lose my foot, have most of the pain anyway and still need to take drugs to control the nerves.
Or should I just stop worrying about it and go an put on some nice music...??? ;)