More on the Bryant Tragedy

by Farkel 18 Replies latest jw friends

  • Farkel
    Farkel

    Here are some excerpts from today’s Oregonian regarding the Bryant family tragedy.

    “On the night of his 17th wedding anniversary, Robert Bryant pulled a $100 bill from his wallet and bought a box of 12-gauge turkey shot, officials said Monday.”

    “Sometime that Feb 23rd evening, the Bryant family went to bed. Later, Robert Bryant got up, loaded two shotguns and shot each of his four children at close range. Next he shot his wife, Janet, who had stepped away from her bed, then he knelt in the living room and took his own life, a Yamhill County district attorney said.”

    “The family moved to Oregon in June from Northern California, relatives and friends say, to get away from a painful break from the Jehovah’s Witness faith. Robert Bryant had gone through a church expulsion that also led to the couple being shunned by other church members and caused the financial collapse of his landscaping business.”

    The article mentioned that the house was locked from inside with a deadbolt and that investigators think Bryant had planned to kill his wife and children for a least a day or two.

    Janet Bryant’s sister Sharon Roe (who had quit the JWs) said, “I thought Robert was joking when he said he was going to have a nervous breakdown. Robert was just that way, he’d say something very doom and gloom one minute and then the net thing he’d be really happy.” She also said her sister was always a rock, and “She was so strong, and she was the best mother you’d ever see.”

    The article continues:

    “Still, Roe is haunted by the last phone calls with her sister, in which Janet seemed “more stressed” than normal. Roe knew that the shunning weight heavily on her sister.”

    Since she learned about the deaths, she hasn’t wavered from her opinion that Robert Bryant was a kind man who loved his family. Somehow, she said, he must have thought it would be irresponsible to leave a family behind.

    Bryant had made friends with his chiropractor who said Bryant “was a good man, a good father. A man of resolve, character, determination. I don’t latch on to people, but this guy really got my attention…There was a depth to him that I really resonated with. I thin, psychologically and physically, he felt cornered. Everything just got too big. And the only way out was, I’ve got to take everybody with me.”

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    Who, in their right mind would ever want to stay in this horrible, horrible hateful religion, I ask?

    This was the lead letter from the Oregonian’s editorial section. Keep in mind that the couple who penned this letter are to be brutally slaughtered by the Watchtower God™. Also keep in mind that Robert Bryant’s only sin under Watchtower Law™ was that he pointed out the hypocrisy he saw around him in his religion. Six people are tragically dead because, it appears to me, his religion cared more about hiding it’s own hypocrisy than dealing with it.

    Kind Hearts and Beautiful Smiles

    We are deeply saddened by the news of the Bryant family tragedy. You would have to have known this family to fully understand how tragic this story really it.

    We feel fortunate to have spent last summer living in the same RV park as the Bryants while they were preparing their new home site. Our daughters played with the Bryant girls, who were very happy and fun-loving. We will always remember them for their kind hearts and beautiful, bright smiles.

    We saw the kindness and love that all of the Bryant children had in them, the respect for others, and the joy they shared as a family. They were all four model children, who given the chance, could have contributed to our society in a very positive way.

    We struggle now to understand how the members of a church could turn their backs on a family like this. The God we believe in is a God of love and forgiveness, not one of self-righteous hypocrisy. Being excommunicated from the church (a Jehovah’s Witness congregation) had a huge impact on this family and is a practice that should be exchanged for one of love and understanding.

    This family, especially Ashley and Alissa, will never be forgotten.

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    Farkel

  • Perry
    Perry

    Farkel,

    Is all of the text in your post excerpts? Or, is any of it your commentary?

    UADNA-TX
    Unseen Apostate Directorate of North America

  • Farkel
    Farkel

    The first sentence was my comment, and so was this:

    Who, in their right mind would ever want to stay in this horrible, horrible hateful religion, I ask?

    This was the lead letter from the Oregonian’s editorial section. Keep in mind that the couple who penned this letter are to be brutally slaughtered by the Watchtower God™. Also keep in mind that Robert Bryant’s only sin under Watchtower Law™ was that he pointed out the hypocrisy he saw around him in his religion. Six people are tragically dead because, it appears to me, his religion cared more about hiding it’s own hypocrisy than dealing with it.

    The rest was taken directly from the news article and editorial.

    Farkel

  • bluesapphire
    bluesapphire

    Good God!!! Even outsiders know how hypocritical the WTS is! I wish this article would be printed all over the country!

    This poor family. How awful. I wish we could have helped them.

  • Beck_Melbourne
    Beck_Melbourne

    I agree bluesapphire...it is an international plague...and if it wasn't for these threads...some of us tucked away in the corners of the earth would never hear of it. Thanks Farkel for the updates.

    Beck

  • jaded
    jaded

    As many on this board have pointed out, it is the good ones, the ones who cannot stand the hypocrisy, that are leaving the WTS. Unfortunately it seems that the pain was just too much for this man to bear. So very sad...

  • ThiChi
    ThiChi

    Farkel: Good points. You should send a letter to the editor or even an editorial to the other newspapers that ran just the story and not the comments...........

  • Perry
    Perry

    Farkel,

    This is my favorite:

    We struggle now to understand how the members of a church could turn their backs on a family like this. The God we believe in is a God of love and forgiveness, not one of self-righteous hypocrisy. Being excommunicated from the church (a Jehovah’s Witness congregation) had a huge impact on this family and is a practice that should be exchanged for one of love and understanding.

    This family, especially Ashley and Alissa, will never be forgotten.

    That is a pretty powerful indictment. The community should be very alert to the anti-family nature of this religion.

    My severe adolescent depression was due directy to the environment of fear and ignorance fostered by the Society. A few years ago, I went to my parents house and viewed old photographs of our family.

    In every photograph, the children stopped smiling at about age 7 or 8....the age of logical reasoning. I kept smiling the longest in the photos...till around age 13. My siblings faces appeared expresionless while mined appeared as if I was very angry. If anyone hasn't tried this, it can be very illuminating.

    Anyway, sorry to digress.

    The saddest thing about this family tradegy is that the Witnesses will undoubtedly drag this families' name through the dirt and will most likely use it in a meeting part to show what the fate is of those who leave "Jehovah's Spiritually Clean Organization".

    This is making me ill, I'll sign off now.

    UADNA-TX
    Unseen Apostate Directorate of North America

  • Amazing
    Amazing

    Hi Farkel: Thanks for posting this. My daughter called me today about it. She lives not far from McMinnville. I knew many Bryants in the Oregon-California area ... many are related ... but, all that I knew are still JWs, so there is no way to find out anything additional.

    While the JW religion did not pull the trigger, it does seem that Robert Bryant was suffering from manic depression, given the comments from the article. Still, the religion does not help the depressed, and I believe in most cases, the religion makes matters worse. They certainly did for my wife.

    So, this sad tragedy does bear the marks of something that might have been avoided if the JW religion had been loving, not controlling, and did not have a policy of shunning.

  • LB
    LB

    Great job Farkel, you are still one of the top fluffers on here.

    What's a shame is the congregation he atended had to have noticed his mental state. Instead of getting him REAL help they booted his ass out before he could talk to others in the congregation about his doubts.

    I'm so pissed I could crap


    Never Squat With Yer Spurs On

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