Peer Pressure - the WTS Greatest Weapon

by hillary_step 32 Replies latest jw friends

  • hillary_step
    hillary_step

    Hello,

    In my early years of questioning WTS theology and methodology in the late 70s', I was entirely on my own. I knew that something was seriously wrong with their doctrines, but there was no Internet, no discussion groups, and in my particular area of the UK, no listening ear.

    In fact everybody seemed so pleasantly in love with the ‘Truth’ and so drawn along by collective enthusiasm that I seriously began to question my own attitudes.

    Sometimes I would wonder if I had gone quite mad, lost God's spirit, or had accomplished some dark deed in my past, that unknown to me was stripping me of my Faith. I remember writing a poem in which I viewed myself as an egg, with a religious skin so thin that I knew that one day I would be cracked open and destroyed by the gaze of the zealot. They were unhappy times.

    This phase did not last long, and I soon began to see that actually the WTS deliberately generates a system that allows this type of feeling to grow within a questioning mind. This perverted peer pressure is arguably one of its main control mechanisms.

    If any ‘lurker’ is inclined to think I am exaggerating at the above use of the word ‘deliberately’, I suggest an experiment.

    Befriend somebody in ‘writing’. Ask to see the manual that the WTS provides as instructions as to writing techniques. Look at the section that deals with ‘trigger’ words and phrases. Write down these words and phrases and then befriend somebody else, this time in an Advertising Bureau. Show them these written phrases and words and ask them what they are designed to do to the human mind.

    While reading a notation on the 'Enron' debacle recently I was struck by the statement made by its Former Vice President :

    "We all knew that Enron was out of control," says Linda Richardson, a former vice president of IT at Enron International who left the company in 1999. "But after you're in that culture for a long time, you begin to think you're the one who's wrong."
    It bought back some rather ugly memories.

    HS

  • JeffT
    JeffT

    Point well taken. I agree that the WTBS does everything it can to control your mind. For example they are apparently in the process of inoculating the flock in preparation for Dateline. Statments like "the apostates are planning something big" will keep the R&F from paying attention (or even watchting) when the show comes on.

    We were fortunate that as we were leaving we joined a support group for ex-dubs in our area. It helped us to rebuild a social life and develop a context in which our lives could move forward.

    Many dubs are fearful of stepping away just because the will loose family and friends. It becomes easier to just go with the flow.

  • SYN
    SYN

    Luckily, I didn't have any family in the BORG when I left. It must be terribly heart-wrenching for all of your family and friends to just disappear and not recognise your existence anymore just because of a single letter of DA or a Judicial Meeting at which you are not present.

    Probably I would still have rebelled violently if I hadn't been too well programmed.


    "...the greater will be the beneficial effect, because you get more of the ultra-violet rays, which are healing" - The Golden Age
    [SYN], UADA
    - Unseen Apostate Directorate of Africa.

  • SEAKEN2001
    SEAKEN2001

    I thinks it's more than a fear of losing friends and family, Jeff. The peer pressure is directed at our foundational beliefs. Our own paradigm is shaped by this pressure and we desire to be comfortable and happy with our own paradigm so we allow the pressure to mold our thinking. The fear of losing family and friends comes at a much later stage, only after we have faced our own inner fears of not believing and challenging our own paradigm.

    The WTS knows this and deliberately uses propaganda to mold our thinking in such a way so that we feel safe. It's all a delusion. Advertisers try to use the same techniques. They want to you to believe and feel comfortable with whatever they are advertising. They know that few will be willing to subject themselves to that which they fear. The number one objective is to get the people to trust them. Without that trust they can go no further. With that trust they can, if so desired, manipulate the people with misleading statements and lead them wherever they desire. As soon as you lose their trust your dead.

    The WTS carefully contructs their words in an effort to capitalize on peoples fears while at the same time garner their trust. Once people give them their trust they can manipulate them as they see fit. This works because there are many people who would rather let someone else do the thinking and reasoning than do it themselves. If someone ever comes to the realization on their own that they want to take more personal responsibilty for their thinking and decide for themselves with their own power of reasoning, well, it's all over. The WTS has lost them. Whatever comes after that will be up to the individual. Some may not care about losing anyone and just do whatever they see fit to do come hell or high water. Others may genuinely fear such losses and find some other way to deal with their newly changed paradigm. At any rate, the pressure applied by the WTS will only work as long as you are a believer. Once you no longer believe, that pressure may have an effect on your life because of the force it has on other peoples minds but inside yourself it no longer has a grip. Along the way it will most likely be painful as you wrestle with your own fears of having to do the work yourself. Some people may never be able to address that fear and voluntarily allow the propaganda to ease their pain. But for those who take the personal responsibilty the WTS no longer leads them, no matter what.

    Sean

  • Pork Chop
    Pork Chop

    I'd really like to see a copy of this manual for the writing department that you're talking about, or just the section you mention. Surely with all the contacts people on this board have someone ought to be able to come up with it.

    Hilary you seem familiar with it, what are some of the 'trigger' words and phrases?

  • TheStar
    TheStar

    hillary,

    Thank you so much for that. That is a very scary quote from Enron's former IT VP. Interesting how, because of your experience, you have an insight to things that others in the world may be totally clueless about.

    I guess we can say that because our lives included the JW path and most importantly the EXJW path, we now have a very special kind of insight than few people in the world do. As another person on an EXJW website said "It's a gift"... and I guess it certainly can be, and other times maybe not so much. But I'm grateful to hold such an insight.

    The idea you mentioned about calling the advertising bureau is very interesting... I've been trying to help my husband to see the JW fallicies but to no avail... maybe this could help... Could you give me more details? Which book is that you are refering to?

  • Englishman
    Englishman

    Hillary,

    You said: "Sometimes I would wonder if I had gone quite mad, lost God's spirit, or had accomplished some dark deed in my past, that unknown to me was stripping me of my Faith."

    Years ago I suffered quite horribly with anxiety attacks. One day I said to my wife that I felt that I had committed some vile act that was so bad that my mind was blocking it out. Tremendous guilt feelings, as though I had murdered someone.

    With my consent, Christina phoned my Mother to see if there was something in my past that I had drawn a veil over, so to speak, to see if she could throw any light on why I was feeling the way that I was.

    She said: "IT'S BECAUSE HE'S TURNED HIS BACK ON JEHOVAH AND HE KNOWS IT".

    Wow.

    Englishman.

  • hillary_step
    hillary_step

    Hello Pork Chop,

    You know them all. Repeated ad nauseum, they bury themselves in the nether reaches of the cranium, just look inside your 'New Language' dictionary.

    If I remember correctly AlanF wrote about this issue somewhere, as ever with perceptive insight.

    It would be quite interesting to see how many get added to this list. These are some phrases that I recall :

    An intelligent person would conclude.......

    No reasonable person could deny........

    Thinking people have agreed....

    Star,

    No, this is not the TSG but is a ‘manual’ that members of ‘Writing’ are given which outlines how they should research and write articles. Certain language and phrases are encouraged, others discouraged.

    I would suspect that Maximus, and Ozzie have also laid eyes on this publication somewhere during their illustrious WTS careers. I do not have a copy, the last time I saw one was in 1981, and I suspect it has fattened like a prime pig over the years…lol

    HS

  • Amazing
    Amazing

    Hi HS: Excellent points about control through peer pressure. It is very real, and is clearly a tactic employed by the Society in its policies, practices, and subtly in their writings.

    In advertising and marketing, a field that I am in with my current career, there are strategic words, phrases, and style used to induce people to make a decision to buy or sell. There are "ethical" standards that separate the art of sales from the those who are nothing more than con-artists. That is: Placing all viable options on the table for your client to consider, honest discussion of these, and proper and legal disclosure of all "known" material facts that would affect their buying or selling decision.

    The number one sales technique is FEAR: Ethically, an appropriate level of fear can be used ... but it is easy to cross the line into con-artistry:

    Example of Ethical use of FEAR: If a buyer is unsure about making an otherwise good purchase, hoping that interest rates will drop, and result in lower house payment, it is perfectly acceptable to show them that interest rates could as easily go up, and that today the rates are lower than historical averages for the last 30 years ... so postponement of buying now may mean that rates may not drop or go up or the property they want may be sold to someone else. They stand to lose (use of fear). However, offer to help them shop around for better lending packages, show them that other properties similar to what they like will likely be available, and disclose to them by providing independent ‘expert’ reports from the government or lending institution industry studies about the legitimate interest rate forecasts.

    Fear of loss is proven to be 10 times greater than the desire for gain. If they buy now, and rates drop substantially, they can always refinance. This is ethical and reasonable use some level of fear and reasoning to help buyers to make a decision, or to discover that something else is really holding them back, and that the interest rate issue may have been a ploy to excuse themselves from a decision.

    Example of unethical use of FEAR: The same buyer is unsure about their decision and want to wait for rates to go lower, perhaps shop around for a better loan package. Telling them that rates are as low as they can go; no need to shop around as you, or the lender you use, offer the best package; or telling them that rates will 'definitely' be going up and they must buy now ... and that this is the best deal in town, for they cannot do better, and will never be able to buy this well again. This forceful type of ‘black vs white' tactics, and essentially lying about rates by placing “definite language” as to what this means for them, and steering them to not shop around are clear ethical and possible criminal violations.

    The “Difference” in the above examples?: One can spot the difference as I stated it fairly clearly. However, the “Con-Artist” is good at using enough ‘cautionary’ language that it is difficult to pin them down on ethics. Rather, one has to really carefully consider the ‘strength of what is implied’ in any statements made. A person can lie by telling the truth, by splitting fine hairs in such a way that they are not technically lying, but it is done in such a way as to mislead, misrepresent, withhold information needed to make an ”informed” decision.

    It is this latter style that the Watch Tower Society uses in its articles, teachings, beliefs, policies, procedures, practices, and group pressure. For example, they carefully crafted their admissions about the 1975 failure of Armageddon to arrive, to blame the readers as ‘speculators’ on dates, and pushing a mere ‘suggestion’ beyond what the Society authorized. They allow certain rumors to go unchecked, such as the belief that all Anointed earth-wide participate in the work of the Governing Body as part of the collective FDS ... when in fact, no such things happens, nor has it ever happened. By allowing an unwritten myth to be perpetrated, they are lying by "omission and failure to disclose the facts" ... and thus misleading new converts as well as the experienced rank and file average JWs.

    The Watch Tower Society, in my opinion, are very clever Con-Artists – among the Best in the world ... and they employ FEAR and PEER pressure to its sublime degree ... to perfection ... and understandably so, for they have over 100 years of experience in this style of dishonesty. Just reading and studying the JFR Trail vs the Society 'political spin' on it, where they know the average JW will never see or read or understand the Transcript, tells me how very talented they are as pure, genuine Con-Artists.

  • hillary_step
    hillary_step

    Amazing,

    Well put and I agree, the WTS are without doubt marketing 'pros', with cunning to burn in the PR stakes as well.

    Best regards - HS

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