Be careful who you let get emotionally close to you.
There are a lot of messed up people in the world (and I'm including the JWs in the congregation). On the other hand, there are also a lot of really cool people that are worthy of your friendship.
Take it slow, take it easy. Deflect overly personal questions until you get to know a person well enough to have a level of trust. Have a sense of humor. Be a little mysterious.
If someone asks you questions you're not prepared to talk about, turn it around and ask them, "You first!"
Then when they're done, if they even tell you, you could respond with something like, "Wow, I couldn't top that!" or "That's TMI" or whatever. Then change the subject. Ask them, "You want another drink?" If they say yes, then respond, "Cool, would you get me one too?" and laugh.
Be fun. Lighten up.
Enjoy life.
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