I see it all the time and it makes me sick ! I'm getting back in and no way I want any kind of position. The guy I studied with was a pushy elder, he finally got deleted. I hope he learns from it, he's now back as an MS but I can still detect some attitude. Jehovah does not always use the best, he uses those that are available, thus a very imperfect org.
I can live with that, but my days of being manipulated are done