The big problem here, in my view, is that the legal requirements of the worldly authority must be met, according to Jesus, and the church requriements are different. One would think that keeping God's vessel clean (Christ's body in mainstream belief) would require a lesser burden of proof. So rather than calling Bethel Legal first, one should call the authorities, if mandated by law.
They are two completely different settings with different agendas. Protection against false accusers is provided by the "beyond a reasonable doubt" burden of proof. Iti s a heavy burden. I believe more and more states will adopt mandatory clergy reporting legislation, with exceptions for a true legal confession.
Once you report it to the police or DA, the issue of what does the church community do remains. This is a First Amendment issue. Courts will not rule on this matter. Knowing what is known today about pedophilia, it seems odd that the two witness rule is applied. I am curious as to what the requirement is in the Roman Catholic, mainstream Protestant, and Pentecostal churches. The scripture used is not express.
Jesus asserted the rights of children. Children were considered a social burden in his day. The current cutesie, adorable, angelic view of children did not apply. It was quite the opposite. Children performed labor at ages 4 under conditions that would make Southern slavery look good. So Jesus' statement was very radical and against the weight of culture. So we have two interests that must be protected. Both are valid concerns. Protection of adults from phony accusations by children and protection of children, prob. the most vulnerable group in any society, from sex predators. Unless we believe God was moral when he commanded Abraham to murder Isaac, the choice is obvious. No one is talking about sending an adult to prison based on a child's statement alone.
Common law criminal law evolved over centuries. Indeed, the growth of England into a nation-state corresponded with the growth of the king's power over his vassals. England had different court systems for almost every legal topic. The king's justice in criminal matters was extremely limited. If a criminal acted on a lord's land, criminal was tried under the local manor law. If said criminal could escape to church lands which were vast and recite a few words of Latin, the king could not do anything. The kings were not happy with this arrangemet nor were the victims of criminals. To deal with the problem a legal fiction was introduced. Criiminal behavior disturbed "the king's peace." Maintaining his "peace," the king's soldiers could now grab criminals from manor courts and church lands.
The jury in the Conti case and juries in the Roman Catholic cases have found that children should be protected. These verdicts would not have been possible 30 years ago.