I have been inactive for 4 years, no service, no comments. (one exception - conductor once asked what big change ocurred in 1995. Needless to say I was the ONLY one in the audience that knew it was the dumping of generation 1914, so of course I commented. How ironic)
Anyhow, other than one newbie elder that just moved into my KH, no one has ever asked me why I am inactive or why I don't comment and I am still included in social gatherings. Why after 4 years no one has asked? BECAUSE NO ONE CARES
Or at least it seems to be that way.
Daring heart is right, they just know what days to come to the KH