You are very naive Was..
Do you realize that there are millions of kids who would love to head on out to a program distributing flyers but that those kids are forced to stay at home to raise their siblings because they have NO choice? Do you really not understand that it isn't just a color issue but a real life issue. There are kids who are drugged by 8 years old because thats what is around them - their choices are determined by their environment.
Do you know how many kids want to just make it to school alive or use school as a safe haven? They don't have choices that are their own - they are owned by others and by their environment.
Where you come from has everything to do with where you go. There are many people who go where they are taught they should by the experiences they have. Opportunity does not come often enough for the poor and they are put down at every turn. Poor neighborhoods. Poor school districts. Poor clothes. Poor social abilities. Poor food. Poor support systems.
It's nice to say it's more important where you are going - I've seen a whole whack of people who made decisions based on all they knew and all they knew was from their life experience. I've seen a great many make choices within the only life they ever knew and from the outside, anyone can point and say 'look, you made a choice'...sometimes for them the choice is a or b but both are going to trap them. That's reality. There are millions of kids who never make it to school because they can't - lack of food, lack of clothes, lack of sleep, fear - that is the life for many a child and their decisions in life are applied to relieve those fears or inadequaties sometimes just to survive - choice and taking the time to make a decision about life is a lot easier when you are wrm, well fed, safe and loved. Millions of kids don't have that. They survive. This is not specific to one pregnant girl or one color - it is within all segments of society. sammieswife