CAPTAIN OBVIOUS- Sounds like you handled it smoothly and well. Try to keep your wife emotionally satisfied with other fun, non-Witness activities or interests because if she thinks about the differences beteeen you now concerning JW issues- you don't want her going to the elders seeking solace from them as she might rat you out to them concerning things you say or do. Not saying that she will- but take proactive measures so she won't. I was once married years ago to a JW woman, and it was like the elders were her closest companions- not me. So, just sayin'. Hang in buddy