I didn't expect to be here at age 49. Here as in my employment

by wha happened? 29 Replies latest social family

  • wha happened?
    wha happened?

    It's been a terrible economy these last few years. I had a very successful loan brokerage and watched that crash and burn in 2011. I went back to my previous firm in the computer industry that was struggling after I left. It seemed like a good match. They needed my sales skills, and they provided a place of employment in an industry I was well familiar with. (Laptop Repairs). I was so confident with my returning I invested as a full partner.

    Well the honeymoon lasted about 6 months and then trouble began. Behind the scenes, our largets client started making job offers to my biz partners. Honesty, they likley would have accepted but I was in the way. So rather than putting it on the table, they just dragged their feet on every project, guarenteeing it's failure or at best, modest success.

    After a year and a half of this, I had enough and put it on the table. They did the same. So my cure was I requested my funds back that I deposited and would resign. They agreed and are paying me back over 12 months with a healthy down payment.

    It's now 2 years later, and I'm thinking: "I'm 49 and what they hell?" Do I look for work? Go to school? I wish I could get paid for making snarky comments, that seems to be a skill I have.

  • wha happened?
    wha happened?

    It's 7:45am and usually I'm getting my lunch together for work. I'm not familiar with having a wide open schedule so I'm venting. We're not hurting for money. I'm just whining

  • 00DAD
    00DAD

    wha happened?: I wish I could get paid for making snarky comments, that seems to be a skill I have.

    God, you'd be a freaking gazillionaire with your impressive skill set!!!

    I'm envious, you know that don't you?

    00DAD

  • wha happened?
    wha happened?

    as yes, my talents are ignored in my lifetime, so I'll wrte a book of snarky remarks and hide it in my belongings, so when they find the mummified body under all the cats, it will be discovered and published. Another best seller from a now deceased author

  • 00DAD
    00DAD

    Can you sign a copy for my first, I mean before you shuffle of this mortal coil?

    Something like this, "To 00DAD, with all my love and snarkiness!"

  • dreamgolfer
    dreamgolfer

    Sheesh, I wish I knew 1) how to operate a computer profieciently, 2) was 49, 3) lived in Cali , 4) looked like Will Ferrell 5) not hurting for $$$$

    Dude you got the WHOLE PACKAGE- !!!!

  • 00DAD
    00DAD

    Actually DG, WH is much better looking than Will Ferrell.

  • NVR2L8
    NVR2L8

    Hey Wha Happened...hang in there buddy! I went throught the same thing when I was 54...after 28 years with the same employer. What help me get by was an extensive network of contacts and people I dealt with. You sound like someone who knows his way around people and I am convinced that in a short time you will find your true vocation. Just one word of caution: I read that you are dealing with some family problems...please don't let this monopolize all of your attention...just focus on what you need to do next to find a position that will truly make you happy. Good luck man!

  • LoisLane looking for Superman
    LoisLane looking for Superman

    You Have got a lot to think about.

    Job, employment/unemployment, your Wife, your Sister, her husband, your sweet puppies. All of that and you know TTATT And you are only 49!

    I enjoy your posts.

    Just Lois

  • biometrics
    biometrics

    Look at the postitive side of your life. You're 49, and you only have to put up with this shite for another 30 years (40 if you're lucky).

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