If the informaiton I am posting is redundant or has been posted, please forgive me.
I know we are all at different stages of this journey. For me I am still "in" but working towards being out and leaving. Any one in this position or who has been here knows how diffucult of a time this can be. Our emotions are running on high. We don't know what to believe. We are unsure if we are making the right choice with wanting to investigate things for ourselves. We are doing so much research, we are on here, we are watching you tube videos, we are asking ourselves over and over if we are making the right decision? What if the JW's had it right? Where do I go from here? There are some really nice people in this organization, they can't possibly be a cult, can they? Have we really been lied to all this time?
Check this list out for yourself and see how the JW compares. The list gives the criteria of a mind control/brainwashed/spiritually abusive environment.
I came to the very harsh and sad realization that the JW's met each and every one of these criteria. See for yourself. I know for me it was truly heartbreaking, but maybe for you this is just the confirmation you need to walk away.
In the book, Lifton outlines the "Eight Criteria for Thought Reform":Thought Reform and the Psychology of Totalism: A Study of "Brainwashing" in China is a non-fiction book by psychiatrist Robert Jay Lifton on the psychology of brainwashing and mind control.
- Milieu Control . This involves the control of information and communication both within the environment and, ultimately, within the individual, resulting in a significant degree of isolation from society at large.
- Mystical Manipulation . The manipulation of experiences that appears spontaneous but is, in fact, planned and orchestrated by the group or its leaders in order to demonstrate divine authority, spiritual advancement, or some exceptional talent or insight that sets the leader and/or group apart from humanity, and that allows reinterpretation of historical events, scripture, and other experiences. Coincidences and happenstance oddities are interpreted as omens or prophecies.
- Demand for Purity . The world is viewed as black and white and the members are constantly exhorted to conform to the ideology of the group and strive for perfection. The induction of guilt and/or shame is a powerful control device used here.
- Confession . Sins, as defined by the group, are to be confessed either to a personal monitor or publicly to the group. There is no confidentiality; members' "sins," "attitudes," and "faults" are discussed and exploited by the leaders.
- Sacred Science . The group's doctrine or ideology is considered to be the ultimate Truth, beyond all questioning or dispute. Truth is not to be found outside the group. The leader, as the spokesperson for God or for all humanity, is likewise above criticism.
- Loading the Language . The group interprets or uses words and phrases in new ways so that often the outside world does not understand. This jargon consists of thought-terminating clichés, which serve to alter members' thought processes to conform to the group's way of thinking.
- Doctrine over person . Members' personal experiences are subordinated to the sacred science and any contrary experiences must be denied or reinterpreted to fit the ideology of the group.
- Dispensing of existence . The group has the prerogative to decide who has the right to exist and who does not. This is usually not literal but means that those in the outside world are not saved, unenlightened, unconscious and they must be converted to the group's ideology. If they do not join the group or are critical of the group, then they must be rejected by the members. Thus, the outside world loses all credibility. In conjunction, should any member leave the group, he or she must be rejected also. [3]
