One of my biggest regrets is the pain I caused my daughter by NOT celebrating her Birthdays and letting her invite all her friends from school. I remember her little face, and the loneliness of being raised in a judgemental islolating group of KH "friends" who did not really care about us at all. Because I was a single mom, they avoided us like we were "weak in the truth" we didn't fit the perfect witness family model. If I had it all to do over I would bake her a cake with candles and wrap up presents, and at Christmas we would decorate a tree and I would surround it with gifts for her. She still sufferes mentally from her childhood, and she was sexually molested by a brother, she blames me. But fortunately she has found a wonderful husband and he saw to it she went to university and now my two grandchildren are in university as well. And you should see how she does Birthdays and Christmas, its a huge celebration every time.