Titaalik - The 'Max' you were thinking of would be Max Lloyd. And, yeah! I agree, Max was one of the good guys. My mad, gay XJW (MGXJW) mate has a nice little story about Max L. MGXJW was worried about being an elder (as far as I know MGXJW had never 'sinned' in the flesh, so to speak, at that time, so that was not an issue) because he thought you got involved in all sorts of organisational stuff that kept you from caring for the sheep. So Max, (he claims) said to him, "Look around you, and what do you see? There are two types of elders, one lot love to wear nice suits and be on the platform telling everyone what to do - and the other lot (and he used a Gk word that both MGFXJW and I forget that meant, one who runs through the dust, i.e. a humble slave. You go away and work out what you want to be."
I had a lot to do with George Hamnett during the building of Ingleburn, I thought George a rather humble guy, but I agree his talks were not very easy to listen to.
Hey! I knew one of the non-bethelites high up in the construction. He told me the insider joke for the Ingelburn bethel (built on the site of an old 'kingdom farm' from Judge Joey's day) was " the funny farm." (slang for a mental asylum).
Sad that John Wilson is dead and his wife too - (forget her name)
The other night, I was watching TV and there's talk about how the beaches on the Gold coast were being eroded, and suddenly there's a face from the past, one John MacArthur, winging about his backyard being washed away. John came from another theocratic family.
Doug King came from another family of theocratic nobility. His brother Merv was on the circuit and district work for a long time.
Never heard anything about Dave Madzay being 'gay.' *** And, I knew his wife Joy a bit after she got re-married. They moved down the NSW south coast near the border with Victoria. Dave came from a family in the USA that were close friends with Nathan Knorr, and were smuggling literature into Canada in WW2.
In 1942 the WTS had bought a small print shop in a slum area of Cleveland with Dave Madzay's father as the 'front.' They printed the WT there and other stuff and smuggled it across the lake into Canada. When the war was over and the Canadian ban was lifted, Madzay senior bought the printshop and turned out those 'extra's' that used to be available like clipboards for H2H records, Calendars, Year txt banners and so on. Nathan must have appreciated their work during the war years to encourage that. Nathan used to stay with the family whenever he was in the area. Both sons were pioneers, both went to Gilead, true theocratic nobility as I said.
And I can definitely assure you that DAve M died in that fire I previously mentioned. I was in a nearby congregation, but I also heard the story from a woman who studied with Joy Madzay (Dave's wife).
What else? Yeah, Don Maclean - all true about Don picking a good looking girl on her looks and not her theocratic record. But June turned out great from a theocratic viewpoint. Now my Don Mac. story. his supportive family in North America bought him one of those Studebakers that looked like the offspring off a fighter plane that had had triplets and shipped it to him. When I came 'in' the truth, I was just a young labourer, and I was repairing the footpath in the city one day with a gang of road workers, and Don pulls up in his Studebaker and steps out in his expensive suit with his living doll wife, so I got to say, "Hello Don, Hello June," with a suitable response from them, and then I got ribbed by the gang of workers for half the day, asking how come I knew people like that.
In saying that I was just a labourer, I've got to acknowledge that most congregations in Australia were made up of 'working class' people, and in some ways likely more accepting, than they may be now. Anyway, they played a role in the sort of person I became, and my decision to go to uni in my old age. I just feel sad that I wasted some 40 years hoping/praying/working for an illusion.
*** after thoughts about 'gay' brothers. Beside my MGXJW mate, who, I believe only started 'doing' anything physical in the last couple of years before he got kicked out, there was Vince McNee, who spent years on the circuit and district work. He got 'outed' after he was off the district and living in Brissie. His wife came home one day and found him in 'compromising' circumstances with an ex-bethelite with whom Vince had had an affair for a long time. Vince is one of the few people I've heard off that got sacked (sent home) from Gilead, and I'm not sure if it did not happen twice.
Another, was a brother from Adelaide who came from a wealthy political dynasty in Adelaide. The family disinherited him. He went into the pioneer service, went to Gilead and met a brother there and they 'fell in love.' Somehow they both got assigned to Cambodia where they continued their love affair. One died (tragic story) and the Adelaide guy had a breakdown and came back to Adelaide. The Society sent someone out to the rented premises and they found some compromising stuff in one of the bedrooms. End of story.
And the end of my memories - uni's started, so I got to study.
Edited to add: some recall on John Mouritz, I thought him the best of the four Mouritz brothers. I found his talks thoughtful and though he was quiet in his delivery, he was easy to listen to. He likely had some difficult circumstances, as his wife Helen was very ill with cancer for years. She was still alive when I was kicked out, but is likely dead by now. John was one of the first brothers I knew to have a computer.