If JW's are allowed to do all of the things on your list, earthfire, it's news to me. I have been out since 1979, so maybe I'm out of touch with the rules.
As an adult approaching 30, I was ordered not to watch Eric Clapton on TV. I was counseled about wearing a cute little hat that matched my outfit AND about buying a 25-cent bet on a baseball game (although I'm sure it would have been okay to spend it on a candy bar so I could get fat), and was derided for taking a couple of college courses.
When did it become okay to be somewhat normal like other people?