Of course, as well all know, this hatred and paranoia toward those who leave is one of the universal hallmarks of a cult.
As Steven Hassan says in the outline of the BITE model: Never a legitimate reason to leave. From the group’s perspective, people who leave are: “weak;” “undisciplined;” “unspiritual;” “worldly;”
Of course, in the Information Control section of the BITE model, cults prevent people from talking to former members.
And, of course, this is also part of Lifton’s Eight Criteria for Thought Reform...
Dispensing of existence: The group has the prerogative to decide who has the right to exist and who does not. This is usually not literal but means that those in the outside world are not saved, unenlightened, unconscious and they must be converted to the group's ideology. If they do not join the group or are critical of the group, then they must be rejected by the members. Thus, the outside world loses all credibility. In conjunction, should any member leave the group, he or she must be rejected also.
Without the work of Steven Hassan and Robert Jay Lifton, none of this would make a lick of sense. Well, sometimes, on a certain level, it never makes much sense to me. But then psychological conditions such as thought reform do not lend themselves toward people making rational decisions, much less, humane ones.
Hitler made the Jews the Boogeyman, pouring all sorts of hate and venom, attributing to them the ills of society. The Watchtower does the same thing toward us and causes JWs to be the Persecutors.
It reminds me of the speech from Shakespeare, just replace Jew with Ex-JW, and Christian with JW: “Hath not a Jew eyes? Hath not a Jew hands, organs, dimensions, senses, affections, passions; fed with the same food, hurt with the same weapons, subject to the same diseases, heal'd by the same means, warm'd and cool'd by the same winter and summer as a Christian is? If you prick us, do we not bleed? If you tickle us, do we not laugh? If you poison us, do we not die?”