Thank you so much everyone!
Mouthy, I've read quite a few of your posts and tear up, thinking about what you have gone through with your family. How foolish they are to not appreciate and treasure you. Sending you a big hug.
I really feel for all of you that are currently stuck inside or are being shunned by family and friends. I'm sometimes torn with how fast to fade as I think I can help others to turn their brain back on. I'm fortunate as my best friend went inactive, too. (No place for educated, successful, traveling women in this organization). So, I can and have forwarded her the most poignant pieces of information I find. She has been a huge support to me.
Gayle, there was a time where it would have torn us apart, if she had not accepted that way of life. I'm glad I woke up in time to not hurt her that way. Not so sure how my parents will handle it. I was 4th generation.
My fade is easier because I don't have family close by and through work and volunteer activities I've built a solid base of friends that really care about us. I always entertained Jw's at my home and loved getting groups together for fun events. There is a void there, but I don't believe in wallowing. From our group of about 25 jw friends that we regularly associated with, 22 have left in the past two years.
Collectively, all of you are just the sweetest, most charming group of people I've never met ")
Carpe Diem!