Why are JWs so inappropriate I wonder? One mature, married sister told my then 14 year old sister how she was a lesbian in the past and blah blah blah during field service. Other married to an Elder told her that her about all the emotional/verbal abuse she was suffering at his hands - she was fat and he would make all kind of comments and even offered her money to go away from him, etc. I remember one married sis telling me during a meeting in the KH's bathroom about this trip and how he spoke with an ex-boyfriend and went to motel and nothing happened ... I was like, why the hell you are telling me this here while I change my daughter's dirty diaper. Another asking me if it was okay to let her husband do oral sx and blah blah. I told her to go with her heart ...lol ...I can go on and on and on, I mean you don't discuss this stuff with teens. My own mother once told me when I was like 16 after conducting a bible study that the lady was crying b/c her husband wanted backdoor sex (if you know what I mean ...LOL). I was very naive back them and I swear I didn't connect the dots until I was here in the USA and realized that thing and I was like how a mother can discuss that with a daughter and go on and on
Any "inappropriate" or "saucy" conversations out in Field Service car groups???
by Gojira_101 18 Replies latest jw friends
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Gojira_101
Thank you all for the comments, right after I posted this I realized I ran out of posts and then I'm been working so haven't had a chance to get on here.
@ d: I've heard many, many off color or dirty jokes out in service, I guess I was always in the wrong car groups...or I should say the right ones
@ Hawk (A.K.A mom): I don't remember that. LOL. It doesn't surprise me though because I remember some of those sex starved sisters in our old hall.
@ Gypsy: Why would that surprise you if it was my dad? I can say he's not the "shy" type. He can be very blunt an too honest with people sometimes....I remember just before my husband and I got married my dad pulls my future husband aside to make sure his parents had "the talk" with him about um..being with an "innocent" girl. I husband still talks about that even today!!!!
@ Think about it: You know what that is an interesting point to bring up. If the angels are directing the work, then why would they allow these types of conversations to go on, and also, why would they direct the preaching work if all the car group is talking about perverted things? That's a very good point!
Maybe they just stick their fingers in their ears and say, "la,la,la,la,la". Love it!
@ Cobaltcupcake: I think the older generations knew to keep certain things private. The younger ones though, some of the things they say could make a hooker blush.
@ therevealer: OMG are you serious? I can just imagine the person who takes care of the flowers "Honey, do you know why all my flowers in this area are yellow/dead?" "No i sure don't, made it's bugs!" hahahahahahaha wow. I know a few times working out in the rural area's the nearest bathroom is 20 miles away, we would go out into the woods to take care of business, but not at someones house!
@ finally awake: Even though the conversation wasn't explicit, it still would not be right to have that kind of conversation during "the lord's time" when you are supposed to be focused on spiritual things. That's interesting.
@ Dismissing servant: I think everyone has one of those stories. I went to a door where the guy was in his whitey tighties and let's just say something was peaking out. I remember my grandma telling me one time a guy opened the door completely naked and she just pointed at his junk and started laughing.
@ Clearpoision: What happens in the car stays in the car! Like it!
@Bella15: Back-door sex. I got your meaning! But you are right, who tells a 16 year old that stuff?
Interesting comments. It's amazing to me, how I even survived being in this cult. I just thought of a nauthy thing a car group did one time, and yes I was apart of it. I think I'm going to start a new topic on it. It's funny because out of the 4 of us in the car group only one got into trouble.
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lriddle80
Nothing really inappropriate...just usual gossip.
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finally awake
I didn't mean during service - just when we were hanging out at the pool or out shopping together.
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MrFreeze
An older brother used to make racist jokes all of the time. He made quite a few crazy comments, even at meetings.
I remember during one spring cleaning he even took off his shirt while mowing. One of the elders put a stop to that real quick.
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Gojira_101
Finally awake: Sorry I misunderstood. Allergies are killing me right now, it feels like I'm in a fog, I've been misunderstanding things all day :)
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life is to short
There was one sister who was an elders wife and pioneer who felt all sisters should wear throng underwear. I mean she went on and and on about it. It was like she was the underwear police and I thought for some minutes she was going to check what all of us had on. It was beyond maddening. Also how she LOOOOOOOOOOVED oral sex, I mean she LOVED IT! but to please Jehovah she and her husband were refraining from it. Why we needed to know that was beyond my thinking.
She was also one of the most looked up to and respected women in the hall. All the elders loved her and thought she walked on water. She was always on assembly parts and used when ever an elder could.
This is only the tip of what I could say about field service it was truly stupid what was talked about in service. I am a very privite person and what was talked about made me feel very uncomfortable. I truly used to wonder where Jehovah's angles were and why they allowed it.
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sooner7nc
We had an older lady, Sister Clark, who when out in service on several occasions let us know the houses where "Nig***** lived".
Kooky old bitch.
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jemba
We were close friends with an elder and his wife. My Hubby didnt go preaching so I usually went with them. They were both huge gossipers and so I heard some of the nastiest stuff happening in the cong from the horses mouth. Especially the Elder, he would go to town on those he didnt like, telling me things like sisters selling their bodies for pioneering money, brothers with porn and masturbation problems, marital problems, who had an affair with whom and how it was hushed up because of their congregational status etc. I soon came to realise that it wasnt just others they were talking about. Gossip soon got around about my Husband and that he had a drinking problem, I had confided in the elder that I was worried about Hubby as he had a really bad JW family life eg. pedophilia, violence and drug abuse-by his parents and siblings and had hit the bottle hard for a few weeks. For Gods 'true' people they can be absolute scum!!!