Yep, I was comparing the NWT with the Greek, which, incidentally uses words like 'grace' and 'spirit' instead of 'undeserved kindness' and 'gifts of the spirit'. I pointed out these mistranslations to my dear husband.
Then I showed him 2 Tim 2:5-6 in the NWT and the original Greek (Strong's, Westcott and Hort) as well, where it says Jesus became Mediator for ALL and showed him in the WT where it says Jesus is only mediator for 144 000. I also showed him an instance in the WT where it raves on about hating 'apostates' and others, then showed him Matthew 5:44 "However I say to you: Continue to love your enemies and to pray for those persecuting you."
I didn't have to say anything 'apostate'; just show him the contrasting texts.
Then I showed him the "Shepherd" book where it says one can get DFd for " Deliberately spreading teachings contrary to Bible truth as taught by Jebovah's Wit nesses" (ibid, pg 65) and told him that I've deliberately told him something different to the WT teaching therefore in the elders' eyes, I can be dfd. Then I showed him 1 Cor 5 and contrasted it with Scriptural grounds for dfd and the list in the "Shepherd" book.
Once again, all I had to do was show him the contrasts.
He got very confused to say the least, asked where I think we should worship and some other questions, the answers to which I honestly confessed that I do not know.
Long story short, he decided to take me to the beach instead of to the meeting. Amazing! I hope this continues, and we both attain the real truth.
For all you out there who are in the same situation as I am, maybe comparing the WT to what the Bible actually says, could help you. I showed him everything from the CD WT Library and clicked the links to the NWT scriptures, and showed him also from a hardcopy of the NWT. The Greek came from bible.cc Interlinear. I hope this helps!