Then you need to contact that person and express your displeasure - if in fact you are displeased about being on the FB page. There may have been a few individuals added along the way by folks within our group, but the mass immigration of new members was primarily due to one over eager person.
Thanks; I think I'll continue to express my displeasure here. AAWA is responsible for its actions and that of its members. This person was indeed one of your associates and acting as a coordinator on behalf of AAWA, and this person is the same person who outed some of my friends without their knowledge. As Mamochan said, take responsibility and move on; don't let it happen again.
But yes, it was very upsetting to see AAWA board members posting and crowing about how quickly their Facebook group was growing, knowing that someone associated with AAWA had outed FB friends of mine.
You seem to be taking the position, "The people who outed faders on Facebook were not associated with AAWA, but if they were, then you need to contact them directly about it." And...no. If they are your associates or volunteers or part of your planning committee, you are ultimately responsible for their actions. Being added to a Facebook group is irritating/rude for me, but for others, it has made a mess of their REAL PERSONAL LIVES. I'm not sure how much it means to them that you chalk it up to "oopsie, growing pains, but our hearts are in a good place". They're still stuck scrambling to figure out what to do now that they've been put on the radar.
