Thanks all for your comments. Here are a few specific responses:
Wholly, You're welcome! I'm hoping that some lurkers are reading this too.
wha happened?, Exactly! It's a classic example of Orwellian doublespeak when a "slave" is actually master over the R&F Witnesses.
breakfast of champions, yesidid, alecholmesthedetective, Thanks for the words of acknowledgement and support.
zeb, Good point. Apparently Jesus "invisible presense" is equivalent with non-involvment in the WTBTS.
Larsinger58, Interesting points, although I think thread hijacking is poor form. BTW, you apparently misunderstand my purpose in writing. Please see my comment to Wholly at the top of this post.
ÁrbolesdeArabia, I'd be interested to hear the response from you JW-apologist associate. Don't hold your breath expecting anything rational. The "Famous Scholars of the Watchtower" as you call them have created a "theology" so convoluted, so contradictory and so confusing that they can't unravel it without creating more of the same. Their delusional ramblings would be little more than a religious curiousity if it were not for the very real fact their policies and practices have adversely affected countless lives.
konceptual99, Your wife's response is sadly typical. It demonstrates how easily the average JW will excuse in their own religion the exact kinds of illogical, contradictory teachings which they eagerly point out in other religions as proof of their being false.
The problem is that JWs are too invested emotionally, whether by time committed to the beliefs, by familial ties and supposed friendships or all of the above, to take a stand over something as easily dismissed as confusing and contradictory teachings.
Cognitive Dissonances is a bitch.