How Has the WT's False Predictions Damaged You Personally?
I was 12 in 1975. I never believed I'd "make it". After I made it, I never really trusted adults again. It severely damaged my ability and willingness to trust.
by Perry 16 Replies latest watchtower beliefs
How Has the WT's False Predictions Damaged You Personally?
I was 12 in 1975. I never believed I'd "make it". After I made it, I never really trusted adults again. It severely damaged my ability and willingness to trust.
I'll tell you as soon as you tell me the name of your adorable African Grey Parrot.
Scooter
Born in 'The Truth' I always believed they were the only true religion. I believed if I disobeyed Jehovah, I would be destroyed at armageddon. These teachings were deeply in grained in me.
When I was 27 I was disfellowshipped. Quite honestly this scared the hell out of me, knowing I would die at armageddon. After 15 years, I finally got reenstated. About a year after I was reenstated I went to the elders for help with a problem. Within two weeks I was disfellowshipped again. This made me question how such a policy could of complete abandonment helped?
After the JC told me I was going to be DF that night I went to visit a close friend who I grew up with at my old KH. He had me read Crisis of Conscious. The information in that book blew my mind. I was forced to listen to lies by my parents for 40 years.
So to answer your question, at one time:
I thought, I knew why people die.
I thought, I knew what happens at death.
I thought, I knew the prospect of humanity.
I thought, I knew the Bible.
Today I know I was lied to. This infuriates me.
Today, I don't know why people die, what happens at death, the prospect of humanity, or even the bible. In fact, I even question whether this is even a god.
In fact, I even question whether this is even a god.
That's what the Watchtower Society has done to so many people.
Richard Dawkins should send the Governing Body a monthly stipend.
It's really difficult to quantify. I made many bad decisions based on the Watchtower's failed predictions, but how can you know what would have happened if only....Would I have gone to college? Would I have married so young and so unwisely if I had not been a dub? Impossible to know. I do know I stayed in a bad marriage because I felt I had to. I do know I was immature and gullible, so even if I hadn't been a dub, I would still have made mistakes. I do know if I hadn't been naive and gullible, I wouldn't even had become a dub.
I do know I have been much happier and better off since I left.
" Scooter "
THANK YOU, PERRY! I've been asking for years and you've finally told me! Parrots rule!
Back on topic, I've never been directly damaged by failed predictions because I never put much stock in them to begin with. I was generally a reluctant dub, having been dragged into the cult by my parents when I was a child.
When 1975 came and went without earth-shattering incident, however, I did decide to ignore the WTS's assurance that I would never need a career and went to college.
I was lucky in that I got out of the cult relatively unscathed by my experiences. By relatively, I mean a 3-year-long clinical depression that included 2 months of hospitalization. But others here have fared far worse.
By relatively, I mean a 3-year-long clinical depression that included 2 months of hospitalization.
Ah, Jehovah's Witnesses, the ONLY religion where 3 years of clinical depression is getting off easy.
Eustace: " Ah, Jehovah's Witnesses, the ONLY religion where 3 years of clinical depression is getting off easy. "
LOL!!! But still true. Some of the stories I've read here are truly heart-rending, with children involved in tugs-of-war between dubs and their enlightened exes. And the years and years some have endured not being allowed to have contact with their families. Horrible.
Eustace - I agree with you about Richard Dawkins. Good point.