So ~2 years ago I left the JW cult, I had an exit talk with the elders with the reasons why and they couldn't find a reason to DF me. Been happy ever since even though I went through a difficult custody and now divorce proceedings. Now all of a sudden they want to DF me. Been invited twice to a JC meeting, progression of the events:
- Two 'elders' came up to me when I was dropping my child off at her mother's house. They had been staking out the place apparently. I said I was not interested.
- They sent me a registered letter. The senders' name was obfuscated and the address was wrong so it appeared to come from the City Court ZIP code while the congregation and the elders are in another part of town so I didn't know when I had to go pick it up. I didn't respond and didn't sign for it with my name, simply signed with a dash. The letter said I have been called on the grounds of "loose conduct".
- They tried calling me yesterday. I sent a brief text message that they could not talk to me on the phone but to send me a text or e-mail.
- They sent me a text message back asking if I wanted to talk with them or if they could come to my house.
- I sent this message back: If there is anything really important that you need to tell me, put it in writing. If it concerns the divorce or custody, please address it to my lawyer. If you are contacting me in name of the publishing corporation, please be aware that all contact has been recorded and any further harassment will result in legal action to your personal assets especially if it can be construed that I have been defamed by your or anyone related to the corporation's actions or statements.
Now I'm waiting to contact me again so I can go get a restraining order against the congregation elders.