Where are all the Brits?

by sleepy 20 Replies latest jw friends

  • sleepy
    sleepy

    I like you American ,Aussies and other foriegners, but why are there so few British people here?
    You would think with all those people leaving the org in Britian there would be more here.
    Come on you Brits get on here, I want to see you posting.

  • Lesley
    Lesley

    I don't bother much, cos I get fed up with all the childishness and bickering that goes on here! I get enough of that from my 3 children! If I posted what I really think about some of the comments on this board then I'd probably get started on! I've read lighthearted threads that have turned into slanging matches, cos some people obviously get a thrill from being abusive. Sad! Seems a waste of time to me!

  • Simon
    Simon

    All the brits are waiting for someone to introduce them ...

    (and I speak as a brit BTW)

  • Steven
    Steven

    Hi,

    I'm Lesley's husband - she has already posted on this topic.

    As some know we disassociated ourselves back in Oct 2001. At that time we both found this board extremely useful & informative & I received some much appreciated support (LittleToe - thanks mate!).

    Simon - I really appreciate the fact that this board was here when we needed the info - so thanks for your hard work!

    Since then I have read Crisis of Conscience which again was very helpful in getting a full perspective on the history of JWs. In addition my wife & I have had lots of deep talks about the whole area & in what direction our lives will go now. However I must say that, at least for me, adjusting to not being a JW any longer has been a much more personal, private thing (which I am still doing & expect to be doing for a long time). Hence I haven't felt too much of a need to spend hours on this site.

    In addition my wife quite regularly checks the board & passes on anything useful to me.

    So I am here & do post from time to time - however I am not a believer in spending all my free time posting & I must say that I think there is nothing wrong with just reading most of the time & only posting when you have something useful to add. Hence I don't actually like the word "lurker".

    Well hope this makes my way of participating (occasionally) in this board known & you can now add one extra to your "Brits Counter"!

    Bye..................

    Own Quote "Lurkers are actually just VALID readers" - Argue with me at your peril! - LOL - that really is a joke folks!

  • dmouse
    dmouse

    LOL @ Simon!

    Hi Lesley, you looking at me? You wanna fight!?

    Seriously though, I agree with you, there is precious little empathy sometimes and I don't like to see good people hurt. But there are lots of kind, intelligent, witty people here too and it's worth skipping the abusive stuff to interact with them.

    I just ignore the other stuff, filter it out.

  • sleepy
    sleepy

    Have you noticed that most of the British posters don't get involved in all this slagging off stuff?

    So the rest of you can all just .....

  • Lesley
    Lesley

    Oh yeah dmouse! you and who's army? lol

    I know there are some nice posters. I started going into chat a few weeks ago, met some nice people and then everyone disappeared! Was it me? Do I smell or something? lol

  • dmouse
    dmouse

    Sniff, sniff...

    Is that Lesley again?

  • qwerty
    qwerty

    Hello

    Not posted for ages, but I still read the board.

    Any Brits in the Yorkshire area?

    qwerty

  • anglise
    anglise

    Hi everyone

    I do post sometimes and read a lot.
    I am sure that many find that life is just too hectic even though most of us no longer go to 5 meetings a week.
    I have to agree with what Steven said about adjusting to life outside the borg, it can and does take a lot of emotional and mental energy.
    We have been out for about 2 years having been in for about 18 and there aren't many days without JW related discussions.

    Please feel free to email me anyone.

    A

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