by jam 10 Replies latest watchtower medical
It,s been a busy week for me, another death and funeral.
The old saying death comes in three,s. My ex uncle who
lived in my city.This what get me so upset. My ex when she
and her husband are in town stay and my brother and his
wife home (JW,s). My sister ask me, why is your ex at family
gathering (my family) all the time. Well my brother,s wife and
she I very close. Ok, the funeral is this
Sorry, as I was saying the, the funeral this Saturday. She
send word by my daughter, if your father will be attending
the funeral please let me know so I can be aware of his presence.
And also tell him there will be a family gathering after the funeral,
he is not welcome. She is the only one in her large family who became
a JW. I haven,t seen or talked to this woman in 15-20 years.
It,s unbelievable, she still trying to control me after all these years.
The hate in some people hearts is terrible.
Double hate I guess, you are her ex, and not a JW ...
She sure knows how to carry a grudge. On the other hand, it is an uncle on her side of the family. It would be more outrageous in my view, if she made it clear you were not welcome in your own family. Or have I missed something?
Steve2; No you didn,t miss anything. She very close to
my JW family members, so I,m not welcome with them.LOL
But her own family members (not JW,s) not very close. If one
did not know any better you would think my family is her
family. A strange predicament I may say. In fact she attend more
family gatherings with my family (JW,s and non-JW,s) then I.
That,s the reason why my non-JW family members are so upset.
And that's why she hurts the cult gaining influence on the non jws in the family. Tell her, You Go Girl!
Go to a place your ex uncle loved and enjoy it in his honor.
Thus it can be said that "by their fruitcakes ye shall know them."
She is the ONLY JW at a family gathering and she wants you to tell him he's not welcome? F that S!
I would undermine her. I'd tell him there is going to be a family gathering and you are welcome, but your idiot ex-wife will be there, so be prepared. I would encourage him to go, even offering to go with him, and I'd help him be THE social butterfly of the day.
Hope your daughter is not a JW. I think it was unfair to use your daughter for such messages. It is just wrong!
Call or write your ex wife and let her know she needs to stop using your daughter or children as a messenger. Occasionally, it is a loud that if she needs to cummunicate such as funerals,sick children. Under no circumstances she should use the children for messages.
Crazy, yes! You just need to put your foot down.
I personally regretted going to ex in laws funerals.
Nathan and
Sarah say it well - and with necessary vigor. Man alive - you need to stand up to this woman - she's crossed the line once too often. I hope you're so mad it motivates you to assert your perfect right to be with the other mourners with dignity and with no apology or explanation. Don't require her to behave differently - just be there, hold your head high and refuse to play her piddly little control-game. Go Bro!
LOL,did you write some?
I think your next blog should be ALL JW,s are as nutty as a fruit cake.
