I am one of the ones you consider fools. First, there are myriads religous bodies in the world. My own does not care much about doctrine or rules. Its history was so bloody and part of the British const'n struggles that the empahsis is on how we act in the world. There are amazing ministires to the homeless and, sadly, to AIDS survivors. We don't need to throw Jesus out with the WT dirty water. What I worship today is the exact opposite of the WT. It is a very main stream church.
My reasons for joining are very personal. This church provided an intellectual feast, warmth in a WASPy manner, soaring music, and love. No one is ever turned away from communion for any reason. If there is a rule, inclusion is the rule. I literally stumbled upon it. Were it not for a few personal experiences, I would be agnostic or atheist.
I am proud that I rescued some good things from the abysmal WT nonsense. If I had to choose one factor that attracts me, it would be that it is the opposite of the WT. Communion with people and tradition isi mportant to me. Frankly, since I left Manhattan, I have no intellectual feast.
It never ceases to amaze me how nice the clergy are, even when I temporarily are furious with them. They supply the weed and jokes at many a party. On 9/12/2001 I saw nice men invested with the Holy Spirit. Men were heaving with sobs. We were so traumatized. B/c there is much socialization, we all knew they were just human nice guys. They were forced to comfort us. I ached for them. My church was doing burials with only fifteen time slots in between funerals. We worried about them b/c no one is trained for what happened.
I do not see my choice as foolish. Also, I attend other churches, esp. Eastern Rites. I pick and choose. Sometimes I am just agnostic. It is fine with them. I asked whether i should not be confirmed b/c I lacked the fervor of my JW days. They replied that church is a community of people asking the same questions that no human can answer. All my doubts they share-perhaps more so than I do.
Also, a good heart and character is what I seek in people in the final analysis I fiind such people in churches and on the streets. Church attendance has little to do with anything important. Every gospel reading I am convinced that Jesus wants me to show my principles in everyday life.