Amelia Ashton, what do you mean by unfriendly? I thought all the congregations were as loving as Aunt Connie's and they hang the slogan "Come bring all your weak, tired and toiled and spiritually starving so we can direct them to another Church!" What's your story, I do not think I have heard you tell us how you got that nice spiritual nudge off the front door thanks to your unfriendly-loving Congregation.
I walked out and never looked back nine months ago and nobody has ever called to check on this former regular piousneer who had to leave the list to work more hours to survive. Once I dropped off the list, I was no longer worthy of their god's love!