So correct me if I'm wrong; (any fellow Witnesses reading this)
It's definitely going against Jehovah if we talk/socialise with a disfellowshipped family member - yes?
But, we definitely ain't going against Jehovah if we talk/socialise with a disfellowshipped family member who still lives at home - yes?
Great!!! Now Brother, if you could just show me the Scriptures which reveal the truth about the loopholes in this two-tier discipline, it will really put my mind at ease.