Thanks for the advice everyone and Captain Obvious I have and am reading some of Steves books, but I also don't think I was ever brainwashed. At least not as bad as most, I never really got all that spiritual and cared that much in the past to really look at things. When I did i was very objective in my thoughts and thats why I was able to wake up so soon after starting to research. I do see a completely different mind set with my wife. She does get deffensive, shuts down and withdraws from me. So yes i will be very careful but at the same time I have to do what I can to rescue as many of my family as possible.