Ever since i was a little boy i've been aware of this vague story about my older sister having some issues at birth, but never knew the details.
Yesterday i was having a conversation with a much older cousin, who is a non-practicing JW about different Watchtower issues. While discussing the blood issue she totally came out with the story about my sister, which i never knew before.
When my sister was born some 40 years ago, my mother had the delivery at home with the help of a midwife. I'm not entirely sure why this decision was made instead of going to a hospital. In any cause, when she was born there were complications and a doctor was called. Apparently there was a condition where her red blood cells were being destroyed by some of my mother's antibodies which somehow travelled through he placenta. To be saved, she needed a transfusion of more red blood cells
My mother, already a JW refused to take her to the hospital to receive this treatment and as disturbing as it sounds, although terribly distraught was willing to let my sister pass away to hold on to her faith. I was told several sisters were present and likely increased the pressure of the situation.
Incredibly, one of my uncles had enough bravery to physically kidnap my sister, remove her from the house and take her to the hospital where her life was saved by a blood transfusion. I believe my sister knows nothing of this, and i will not tell her either.
I share this to illustrate the grasp that this cult has on so many lives yet today and the harm it continues to cause.