Thank God I was not one of those parents who believed my children should be baptized young. I was baptized at 16 and that was still too young in my opinion. My kid's cousins were baptized at 11 and 12, almost10 years ago. They are actually still doing well, both married now and still going to meetings. However, I remember talking to my kids when their cousins were baptized and telling them how I felt that it was WAY TOO YOUNG to be getting baptized. They never were baptized and are free to choose how and what to believe and know that I support their choice regardless. My kids don't want anything to do with being JW. But I feel bad because they, like me, don't know how or what to move on to. They just know that they don't want to be JW. It's like living in limbo...