Julia says,
However you honour your pet's remains is entirely up to you. It is no one's business, jw or otherwise.
Thanks, I agree- I wish it was that simple. Anything outside of leaving it at the place for euthanasia looks weird and creepy to my household (husband & kids).
I asked "what's wrong with bringing the ashes home?" The kids had a look of horror on their face and my husband said "you know we (JW's) don't do that." Then I said, "how do you know what other JW do, your family just never did that?" Then one of the kids said, "yeah, that true, maybe it's just how you use to do things". I added, "there is nothing specifically written on this, as long as your not praying to it" He said jokingly, "you need a bible study."
He later said, "why would someone bring ashes home?" Any response given looks like I'm going overboard. I said, "to show respect, for someone who has been apart of our family." He said, "it's not necessary to bring it home to know that you have respect and the deceased pet is not going to know so we'd only be trying to make ourselves feel better."
This will be the kids first experience loosing a pet and I want them to see and understand that there is nothing wrong honoring and dignifying our pets death. I just feel like at least out of respect we should bring it home and bury.
Jeffry says,
The JW policy on cremation (of humans) is that it's a personal matter, but that they should consider local community funeral customs and avoid 'stumbling' others. There is no specific 'policy' about cremating pets.
I agree, that's pretty much the gist of what, I've found. Most of what I've found on pets resemble the one Blondie referenced, that very minimum (time & money) should be done or else you are elevating or idolizing your pet above humans.
This is part of my issue. My husband is seeing this as excessive, considering all the money we've spent on our pet this past week. We started at $140 and now we are around $2000 in a matter of days for a pet he pays insurance for monthly. He is of the mind set that the animal professionals are running a racket to make money. So, the cremation company is just the next people in line to get our money.
There's a WTS article that parallel this thought too.
TheOldHippie- I agree with your thoughts and how appropriate when you say, that your pets deserve to rest in the place they love so much. I'm going to try this angle today with my husband and hope I make a breakthrough.
In regard to whether a 2013 article would sound like a 1972 article, I think Blondie makes a point when she says, "No 2013 article because the WTS feels that the 1972 article is up to date..." Also a 2013 article couldn't take the same tone regarding pets at the 1972 article.
When I get some time I will post some of the interesting articles I came across on this subject in case they can be of any benefit for someone else.
Honesty says,
Very few JW's in this area have pets because a pet takes up too much time that could be better utilized in hawking Watchtower comic books.
That's just how the WTS wants it. ;-)