I felt a bit sorry for this person, I've met many JWs like her, always pouring out torrents of words that were mostly half-truths about the world around us, and even distortions of WT/Bible theology.
I imagined VG as having been a witness like that! Sad, isn't it, that a person can leave an organisation like the witnesses, and yet the organisation continues in their personality. True captives of a concept, except the concept is their own version of reality (stated with full knowledge that, 'reality' is a personal thing>grin).
In connection with the statement attributed to her, concerning the function of this board, that:
You provide no rest or spiritual refuge and so you defeat your own purpose, which is to provide a way out to sincere, hearts, seeking a way to worship without the WT, and feel safe. you all make it unsafe for them by mockery and your own brand of shunning.
I imagined that this board was started (in the beginning) to allow a space for commentary on witness life and theology, since no space to do that is permitted to exist within the witness organisation. As more and more participants moved to a position of disillusionment with the witnesses, it became a place of protest. I have never thought of it as being a place of 'spiritual refuge,' and we may ask the question: can it ever be a place of spiritual refuge, as a replacement for the witness brand of Christianity?
Noting the diverse thinking expressed on this board, I suggest it can't be. For this site to become a "spiritual refuge" of the type described, it has to become another sort of religion, propmoting and disciplining within certain guidelines. If that happens I'm out.
BTW, Christianity has never exactly been a place of calm, reasoned, doctrinal purity. The fierce arguments and even persecution of those who held a contrary idea is evidence of a spiritual situation the opposite of calmness and peace.
Those who imagine Christian belief as a place of peace, exist within an illusion, just as imaginery as the witness belief that Christ will have been ruling (in their definition of ruling) for 100 years in October 2014. (Are they intending to hold a big celebration, maybe a series of Round the World Assemblies with the theme, "One Hundred years of Kingdom Rule?" hahahaha)