I thought that these days unbaptised persons cannot be D/F or D/A and you should be free to associate with your family if they choose to - they are safe and cannot be acted against?
Great article by the way.
And you probably have been spared many wasted years and possible horrors by such an early exit. Good on you.
What DATA-DOG said: "You were way too smart for the Eldubs of your KH. They fear you, and you don't need them."