This is totally unacceptable. The law could not be clearer. There will be serious consequences. This is a litigate/settle scenario. To be frank, when I was a college student, there was a pocket in NJ that still forced school prayer. The local ACLU was not pressing the matter. It was a very geographically remote area, full of bigotry. The executive director explained the culture. Although I grew up in NJ, I felt as though I would faint when I heard details. They were afraid of murder. I suspect there were other issues that he was not revealing.
I was going to go South to do voter registration while I was in college. Other pressing circumstances prevented me. A large group of outside college students descended on the town and a local student was murdered. Freedom requires vigilance.
Hopefully, this family is not so separated from mainstream culture. Of course, my mom and several other family members who were climbing up the social ladder through public school were summarily expelled before the landmark U.S. Supreme Court decision. These individuals lived with the trauma for their lives.
The age of the child makes the action even more reprehensible. My mom would have loved to salute the flag. If she did, however, she would face execution from my gm at home. I had fascist, bully teachers, particularly during the Red Scare days of the 1950s. Teachers would pick on Italian immigrant kids and mock them. Once a new student, only a few days in the States, had to practice getting the swagger out of his step. I wanted to kill the teacher.
Besides legal action, I hope this kid gets appropriate treatment for the trauma. This makes my own experience seem like paradise.