Dawn:
damn you, damn you......here I was, making my way thru "postville," determined not to post, especially while drinking wine, and I had to "backscroll" to your thread......my JW brother said the same thing to me a couple of weeks ago, "you don't leave with no where to go, nothing out there is any better." I don't really understand this logic, and I'm, quite frankly, surprized that this thread exists...It's weird, at least to me, that this argument is one that people even come up with.....I thought that my brother was the only one.(Reason for the sudden "backscroll") What I said to him, (though now I have to remember what MEGA said), is that when I was married to my previous husband and he did something that just blew me away, I just knew that I could not continue with him anymore....Once someone loses their trust in another, is there really any future together? Not for me, as I told my brother, I didn't know what I was going to do, the only thing I knew for sure was that I could not continue on with someone who had lied to me.....it's like "I have enough faith in myself to know that I'll be ok, and I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life than to spend it with a liar." It's so bizarre that people feel that they have to have a place to go before they can get out of a liar's house.....personally, I'd rather sleep in a park.....I'd go to a shelter, I'd do whatever I had to do in order to escape a liar......so, if these people, like some spoiled housewife (which I am now) need a place to go before they'll leave a liar, tell them to go within their own heart.......if that's not enough to convince them, nothing is......