Were you a virgin on your wedding night?

by montag 61 Replies latest social relationships

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  dustrabbit

  Nope, I lost it on my 20th birthday, but it was a mind-bending/mind-f*ing experience that turn me upsidedown. Besides, I got married two days before my 27th b-day. (It seems I'm trying to make up for all those missed birthdays.) And I had already been living with the woman I married.
  So, what has been the average age of us exJWs losing our virginity after (not before) leaving the JWs? Nineteen? And for those losing their virginity beofre leaving the JWs -- 24?
  It's so fascinating to hear from all of you; now I don't feel so alone in this.
  the dustrabbit

  To do list:
  1.Still waiting to goose the Organization.
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  City Fan

  I think the average age for a JW losing their virginity is about 19 years. Well this is when most seem to get married. All my friends got married far too young.

  I was 19 when a 15 year old blonde cute sister invited me round to her friends house to 'help' babysit. I went there a boy and drove home a man !!!

  I could never see the point in rushing to get married.
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  Panda

  Ahem...Ahem ...Ahem UHM define virgin.
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  Xandria

  Yes, I was a virgin on my wedding night.. I was not allowed to date. An my mom would give the look of death to any BOY or MAN who came any where within the perimiter. Then I had 2 sisters who where like the chaperone patrol. Lord knows my poor teenage body was ravished by naughty thoughts .. but no outlet.

  Then I got Married at 19 .. and my husband had to explain things b/c my mom made it sound so dirty but w/ out getting into how it was ACTUALLY DONE! So I was a bride w/ out a CLUE.

  Until he explained to me. Then I was " You want to do WHAT WHERE ! OMMGGGG!" he had to stop me from bolting from the room. It was a tramatic experience... but after wards it was fodder for a good laugh. The funny thing is I understood what oral sex was. But my dub mind could not fathom sex. Now that is screwed up.

  Xan
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  MrMoe

  Oh, this thread is getting resurrected! Welcome Xandria (not to be confused with Xander...)

  Was I a virgin on my wedding night... I will quote engishman on this one... something about pigs flying... AND seeing on how we lived together for a while before we got married... AND his living room had an entire wall made of mirrors... and I had already had a baby... um, SURE I was a virgin *a-hem*

  Kisses,

  Moe
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  scootergirl

  NO, no virgins here on their wedding night.
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  Xander

  I locked myself in the bathroom for 45 minutes when I got to the hotel

  From what I've heard - this is a LOT more common than you might think. Not talking from experience, fortunately, my wife was considerably more horny than I - but I tell ya, you hear stories...

  Oh, the dubs, and their infinite wisdom in making people wait until married...

  (BTW: to the question of thread: Yup)

  not to be confused with Xander

  I wondered about that - seen a couple posts. Geez, someone steals my nick....
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  jack2

  My wife and I both entered into marriage as virgins, though there were some 'close calls' (however those might be defined). I was almost 22, she was 19.

  And, I am happy to say, we had our priorities in order on that fateful night.....first thing we did was open all our cards and count the money.
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  eyegirl

  not married and definitely a virgin no longer. however, i think i did 'hold out' until i was almost 23. it was my first serious, worldly boyfriend and he didn't want to rush me. even though that sounds kind of stupid, i think it's pretty sweet.

  beck
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  unclebruce

  November the 10th 1979 was a wonderful day and good night for me.

  22 years of pent up masculinity was amaturishly unleashed on a lucky young bride. lol

  The way things are going the same thing could happen again around 2024 (but i won't be a virgin this time and i've leared a few tricks since then .. little things like pleasing the woman first.

  unc ROTFL@Farkel .. poor bastard