Ok suppose a man met an inactive JW woman. Started dating, had a child. And throughout his and her relationship there were many ups and downs, drug issues on the womans part , too much drinking on his, she cheats then they find out they are pregnant and move intogether. Things go well but they want to raise their child responsibly. So JWs come by and it all seems like divine intervention at work. So they study, and they believe what they hear. They then begin to toss out bad books and movies. They encourage the couple not to wait but to get married to please Jehovah and become publishers. Reluctantly they marry at the courthouse with a small group if family and friends. But the father is in college and Mom works at night then wants to go out often to bars. She meets a guy and has a fling on the side after theyve been married only 8 months. The husband finds out and somehow forgives her. They both decide its time to dedicate their lives to become better. Mom stops smoking, dad finishes school and starts to work, they get baptised.
the Husband/father then learns TTATT. Knows its all false. But hes afraid because he doesnt want his wife to go back to the way she was, which he knows he cannot bear for her to cheat again. Hes terrified that would destroy his childrens lives as he trew up in a similar way. What does a man do?
so what would you do if the husband was you?