Jack C.
In answer to your questions: “No”; “Many” and “Yes”. I detect that you’re making some definite but incorrect assumptions about what I believe and how I’ve arrived at this place. Do I really have to literally read in the Bible that God is not an asshole to know whether or not He’s not an asshole? Although I don't disagree, I’ve never used such a term. That was Captain Obvious. In a passionate rant, I might say that. However, I refrain from it in order not to unnecessarily offend other people. But, why can’t such conclusions come from deeply disappointed people who have spent a good deal of their life questioning and searching real for answers instead of the uninformed individuals you picture? Why must it be that anyone who doesn’t agree with what you say be cast in a less learned light?
Tell me, how many brown ducks do I have to encounter and count before concluding that all ducks are brown? This is where your reasoning falls short and makes you petty and judgmental. I don’t need to count; I just need to encounter one single exception to conclude the opposite. This is why you have made a notable but incorrect assumption about what I’ve “chosen to ignore”. And you also have not read sufficiently well my recognition of a “spiritual” need in humans, even though that can manifest itself in many right and wrong ways.
No, not everything that fails does so because it was wrong. Life is not binary, yes or no, good or bad, right or wrong. I stated that earlier: “If you look at reality with an unbiased eye, you'll find that there is no "good" or "evil" or "light" or "dark"; and I mean that in a moral sense and not a physical sense. But even in a physical sense, those things are a matter of degree from the absence of one thing to a full complement of it.” “Really, things simply ‘are’.” I realize you may be the type who likes simplicity and expedient answers in order to settle your own uncertainties and give you reassurance that everything will be OK. I, however, am content to accept questions I cannot answer and not believe in things I can’t verify, like the Bible or anything you say I’ve been taught by a government or an educational system or tradition.
Really, I don’t have to look outside the fishbowl because I removed myself from it a long time ago. It’s not the most clear and well-lit place to be, but it is better than being in bowl full of biblical shit. I sense that you, on the other hand, have your own definition of “truth” rather than one you can actually sustain via a cogent argument.