@krejames:
Sorry for the late response. Every now and then work gets in the way and I have to put the forum on hold. You wrote:
It's the comment "Being gay is wrong" that's a bit homophobic really. I appreciate a christian might have the view that men having sex with each other is wrong (that's the extent to which the bible addresses same gender sexual activity - it does not address homosexuality itself as a concept).
To illustrate: "being gay is wrong" is like saying "being from Jamaica is wrong". If a christian goes with what the Bible has to say, the most they can say is that it's wrong for men to have intercourse with each other. (using the Jamaican example, it's like saying it's wrong to eat jerk chicken hehe).
There is more to being homosexual than just having sex, though clearly that is a big part of it. What most fundamental religionists don't seem to recognise is that it's not so much about sex as it is about love, hopes and dreams and who you are
If one wanted to be really pedantic and use JW reasoning: take a look at the Insight Book Vol 1, under Crime and Punishment, page 549, under the heading Major Crimes Under The Law. Here the WTS interprets the words used at Lev 18:22 as "sodomy" (no 11 in the list). If this interpretation of a man lying with another man as a woman etc is correct (I'm not convinced to be honest), then as far as homosexuality is concerned, the bible only condemns sodomy. (Paul's scripture at 1 Cor uses an adaption of the hebrew word used in Leviticus).
The point being that the bible does not condemn homosexuality. That is why, to me as a gay man, Tony Morris' talk was so offensive when he ranted about many many many homosexuals being in the fashion industry. Does he not realise there are many many many homosexuals who are Jehovah's Witnesses? What message is he giving them apart from extra guilt and self loathing, knowing he thinks they are "disgusting"?
(edited - far too many mistakes and typos, sorry!)
Don't worry about any sort of typos. It is just a forum.
I see what you are saying. In essence, you are defining "homosexuality" as more of a sexual "orientation". In doing so, you make a distinction between being "gay" or "homosexual" and the phyiscal aspects that might come with that "orientation". Then you say that the Bible seems to be against the sexual acts of homosexuality, and not necessarily against the "orientation". If I have misunderstood, please feel free to set me straight.
So if you are a gay and a Christian, the only way you can be Bible-believing and homosexual is fully admit that your "orientation" is, at the very least, "incorrect" in God's eyes. Also, a homosexual Christian would have to live in such a way as to deny that orientation's effects. A homosexual Christian could fully accept that he is a homosexual, for whatever reason (nature vs. nurture doesn't matter here), but he would have reject the orientation as improper to act upon. I noticed in your response you said that being gay is "not so much about sex as it is about love, hopes and dreams and who you are". That makes sense. You accept that you are gay, and normally are proud of that. It is who you are.
But essentially, to be gay and Christian (remember, what I mean by this is a Christian that accepts the Bible, including Paul), you must reject all the hopes and dreams and love that comes with who you are - unless of course the "hopes" are NOT tied up in being with someone you love. And your "dreams" do NOT include being with the one you love. That seems unreasonable, though. This seems to go well with the "hate the act, not the person doing the act" reponse that Christians normally give.
One more question: why would you say the term "homophobic" is proper for someone who says being gay (orientation) is wrong? If what we mean by "homosexual" is the orientation, and all that goes with it, then Christians - in hating the ACT, not the ACTOR - have to conclude that it is "wrong" in the sense that it is "incorrect way of living" (can't pursue a life based on the orientation). Why are they "homophobic"?
MMM
(edit: also, to go with the theme of the thread, it still makes sense why those churches - including the WTB&TS - would condemn those homosexuals that do not admit their orientation is incorrect)