I think Jehovah's Witnesses are the only religion that truly feel the more they abuse someone, the more that person will want to be part of the group. They've taken "tough love" to an incomprehensibly cruel level.
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no doubt her elder and pioneer siblings will tell her, "see, if you were a JW in good standing, we would've told you Dad died. It's one of the "privileges" you'll receive if you become a JW again".