I was an elder so here it is :
1. it is not all ass kissing alot of it is making yourself available to the cong, becoming all things to all people.
I never really associated with the elders because I was considered a hick from the sticks.I moved from Mississippi to California.
I had a southern drawl that no body could understand, but a sence of humor everybody loved. I could tell stories and and weave stuff in my talks thats marveled everyone.
The single sisters loved to visit our home and we studied with them blah blah blah. My being appointed was more of a popularity contest then anything else.
Field service hours were normal, I studied researched made inproved answers and was an outstanding book study conductor; therefore, it happened because the cong. gave the CO shinning reports about my family and me. The body of elders had no bad things to say except I talked funny.
I believe it is more a popularity contest to a great degree more so than ass kissing.
I have also seen a lot of ass kissing and they still never were appointed.So take it for what it is worth>
That is my experience there may be a hundred different stories by a hundred different elders & ex-elders.
There were good guys and there was bad guys. My background and being raised by just a mom I was more aware of being an advocte to the sisters and they appreciated me for it because I went to bat for them when everybody else was finding fault with them...
I am not bragging just stating a fact.
I never voted for a DF or for public reproof.
I have been known to tell some that continually stayed in trouble ."If your not going to do anything in the truth, why not make yourself useful to society and join the milatary."
I hope some did as I look back. hahahahaha.
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