ecan6, oh I can relate to what you're describing...
The changed songs were one of the driving factors towards my awakening as well!
I can clearly remember the convention where they introduced the new song book... when they played through the sound system those sample clips, I was shaken from my foundations in a bad sense. I immediately got a really bad felling of dying inside. As many have reported, songs would bring us some nolstagic feelings linked to positive experiences with our relatives and our brothers and sisters.
This WT 2.0 (aka JW.org) has ruined those links and those memories.
I can tell you that this was the very first thing to trigger my awakening.
As I'm from a portuguese speaking country, I can say with authority that the new songs are really bad, and that their translation is even worse! They do not make any sense, are ridiculously simple and numb, and for the majority of the songs doesn't quite fit the melody timing. We frequently run into an embarrasing situation where people simply mumble words cause they don't fit the melody.
The previous song book (that some of us grew up with) had a better melody and was translated into portuguese by a brother that was supposedly a musician and a poet. So the lyrics were really deep in meaning and were beautiful to sing to.
The new songs are CRAP.
I am still attending some meetings with my wife, but I can tell you that the most irritating part of that meeting is the part people sing those songs...
The new songs are CRAP.