I LOL whenever I run across this term because it aptly describes the elders' wives I've known.
Bossy and domineering for the most part, they delighted in being the alpha females and watched jealously to see if any other female received undue attention from the body of elders.
I remember one who told me that my dress was too short, another said I was spoiling my daughter, and yet another wanted to know from where I was buying her clothes!
Too much!
LOL.
Sylvia