JC are not bibical!
Now you know to take it to God.
I find it strange how many suffer through these JC meetings full of fear and hope for some kind of help. Practicing sin or a one timer does not matter. The person who reports the wrong act might be trying to help. Yet there is no help to be found.
Did you confess your sins?
Where does it say in the Bible that confessing sins some one should suffer reproof or dfd? You wont find it!
If your husband was practicing sin and you confessed your husband's sins to the elders. The elders should hear your confession and oil your head then pray to God for the forgivness of sins. Because YOU came forward his life could be spared. Does it say they stopped practicing sin? No! Our Father is so forgiving he will help you with your loved ones! What more do you think he will do for personal direct confession. It is in the bible and I could find it for you, if you want.
Once you figure this out you realize the WT really has it wrong!
What they practice is keeping the congregation clean so they need to reprove or dfd people! Keeping the congregation clean has nothing to do with helping the sinner, and everything to do with judging. Judging if one is righteous enough to belong in a fake organization.
Although I prayed to God, for some odd reason I thought I was suppose to go to elders to keep the congregation clean.
Like you I learned to take it to God and not men!
Why would men want to hear women's sin! No need to answer I think it is for their own satisfaction.